Do we form ‘soul ties’ with our sexual partners?
The internet is rife with sex misinformation – and our F***ing Nonsense series is here to bring you the real facts. Next up, what the hell is a soul tie?
The internet is rife with sex misinformation – and our F***ing Nonsense series is here to bring you the real facts. Next up, what the hell is a soul tie?
If you’ve been anywhere on the internet in the last few years, you might have (unfortunately) come across the concept of soul ties. With 437.4 million views on the #soulties tag on TikTok, the idea has swiftly been gaining traction online.
Depending on where you read about soul ties, several definitions apply. Some say a soul tie is formed when an ex sexual partner has such a significant impact on you, that you feel deeply connected to them forever – even after you've broken up. Others refer to them as an inexplicably deep connection with a stranger who will teach you some kind of lesson (very ambiguous, we know). These are said to be future partners – soul ties in the making.
But the fundamental meaning of soul ties, regardless of the definition you've heard, is that two individuals share spiritual and emotional energy, and that it’s most likely to occur during intercourse. This results in the so-called ‘soul tie’.
Virginity is merely a social construct in the first place. There’s no physiological difference between someone who has had sex and someone who hasn’t. Telling people that virginity exists at all is misinformation that can affect people – mainly women – negatively, whether that’s sexually, culturally, psychologically and even economically.
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