Are you a black cat or a golden retriever?

Latest on TikTok this week: cheaters everywhere, the museum date of your dreams and the end of the beginning

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Latest on TikTok this week: cheaters everywhere, the museum date of your dreams and the end of the beginning

By Darshita Goyal22 Mar 2024
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Hiya, chronically online scrollers! Welcome back to TikTok Decoder, woo’s weekly breakdown of trends, sounds and creators brought to you by senior writer Darshita Goyal <3 This week is all about romance: serendipity at museums, cheaters at airports, even cities are rose-tinted. Buckle in!

freshly viral: the museum date of your dreams

A very good looking man spots a very good looking woman at the museum and starts a conversation. They even dance together in the end but he forgets to get her number. All this goes on TikTok and rakes in 10m views, so of course she finds him! They hold hands at the movies, almost kiss on cobbled streets and gift each other tulips and raspberries. I’m not crying, you are! After who tf did I marry? we deserve a rom-com level successor – nine parts and counting.

new slang: black cat, golden retriever

You’ve probably heard of the controversial ‘reachers and settlers’ theory in relationships, and the golden retriever and black cat is a close second – except it’s more gendered. The golden retriever boyfriend loves and obsesses over his femme fatale, black cat girlfriend who’s busy running the world. Who fits this trope? According to the internet, Zendaya and Tom Holland, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds all hit the mark. Like so many trends, it’s fun and games until it’s manipulation and it’s not…

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